An umbrella can provide shelter from the rain — it can also block out the sun.
The same object, the same gesture — helpful or harmful depending on what is actually needed.
In nonviolence, service isn't about rushing in to provide what makes me feel useful, it's more like attending to the changing weather of someone else's life.
Sometimes a person, or a situation, needs cover. Sometimes they need warmth, light, and space. If I open the umbrella without really paying attention, I might protect or I might dim what's helping them grow.
Service needs to be responsive, attentive to the moment and the person standing in it.
Today I'm practicing asking what's needed before offering solutions.
Umbrella by origaminojikan on YouTube
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